When something changes in my life, it isn’t always something I embrace with open arms. In fact, if I have not chosen that change for myself, I may struggle with it significantly. Jeffrey Cufaude, a strategy consultant from Illinois, described this experience in his blog: “When you’re the driver, you’ve got control of the wheel and know not only where we’re going, but each decision you’re making along the way. “In the passenger seat, things feel different. I don’t have the same sense of control and comfort with our speed, direction, degree of the turns, etc. I can’t prepare for your sudden veer left or rapid acceleration because I don’t know they are coming. … What’s true in the car is also true for a